Trong h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111i t\u00ecm \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt t\u00ean l\u00e0 Liz \u2013 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u0169 c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng trai. Liz \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9, c\u00f4 l\u00ean ch\u1ee9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb th\u1ebf m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, \u0111\u1eb1ng sau v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i h\u00e0o nho\u00e1ng \u0111\u00f3, Liz l\u1ea1i r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng t\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111ang “d\u1eadm ch\u00e2n t\u1ea1i ch\u1ed7”. C\u00f4 chia s\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u0169: qu\u00e1 t\u1ef1 m\u00e3n v\u1edbi h\u00e0o quang qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 m\u00e0 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c trau d\u1ed3i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n cho nh\u1eefng th\u1eed th\u00e1ch \u1edf hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0110\u1eebng tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh c\u00e1i sai \u2013 H\u00e3y can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng mu\u1ed1n ch\u00f4n v\u00f9i nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Sai l\u1ea7m lu\u00f4n \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat t\u1ef1 ti, khi\u1ebfn ta ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n “x\u00f3a s\u1ea1ch” k\u00fd \u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3 kh\u1ecfi b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o. Nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng l\u00e3o trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch The Present<\/em> \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c: “Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb h\u00e8n nh\u00e1t m\u1edbi m\u00e3i nu\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc ho\u1eb7c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tr\u1ed1n ch\u1ea1y kh\u1ecfi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9”<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00d4ng d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng, c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng cho hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd nh\u01b0 l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng x\u1ea3y ra, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i, nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o n\u00f3. Khi b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hay m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, thay v\u00ec than th\u00e2n tr\u00e1ch ph\u1eadn, h\u00e3y th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c “gi\u1ea3i ph\u1eabu” t\u00e2m l\u00fd kh\u00e1ch quan. H\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi mang t\u00ednh ki\u1ebfn t\u1ea1o: “\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 di\u1ec5n ra? M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t \u1edf kh\u00e2u n\u00e0o? N\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c \u0111i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?”<\/em>. Khi b\u1ea1n d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n, n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u1ec1 sai l\u1ea7m s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 kh\u1eafc tan bi\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bi\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i \u0111au th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ch\u00e0ng trai trong c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng: Khi ta r\u00fat ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nu\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc n\u1eefa. T\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? B\u1edfi v\u00ec l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh “s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh” c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng v\u00f4 \u00edch, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1edf h\u1eefu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc m\u1ecf neo kh\u1ed5ng l\u1ed3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eeba th\u1ea5y trong b\u1ee9c tranh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 k\u00e9o l\u00ea n\u00f3 \u0111i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft th\u00e1o x\u00edch, nung ch\u1ea3y kh\u1ed1i s\u1eaft \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00fac th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t b\u1ec7 ph\u00f3ng, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n \u0111i xa h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft. Khi b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch “l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n” v\u1edbi sai l\u1ea7m, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch b\u00ean trong. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng gian h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng “m\u00f3n qu\u00e0” c\u1ee7a hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung cao nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n L\u1eddi nh\u1eafn cho b\u1ea1n:<\/strong> \u0110\u1eebng s\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m sai, h\u00e3y ch\u1ec9 s\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec t\u1eeb c\u00e1i sai \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m qua \u0111\u00e3 qua r\u1ed3i, nh\u01b0ng “ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y” qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay. H\u00e3y d\u1eebng vi\u1ec7c d\u1eb1n v\u1eb7t l\u1ea1i, r\u00fat ra b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc, v\u00e0 m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft s\u1eb9o c\u0169 th\u00e0nh huy ch\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh ch\u01b0a?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Trong h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111i t\u00ecm \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt t\u00ean l\u00e0 Liz \u2013 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u0169 c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng trai. Liz \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9, c\u00f4 l\u00ean ch\u1ee9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb th\u1ebf m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, \u0111\u1eb1ng sau v\u1ebb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":317,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,3,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-316","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","category-ky-nang-phat-trien-ca-nhan","category-tan-man-cuoc-song"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/316","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=316"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/316\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":318,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/316\/revisions\/318"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/317"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=316"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=316"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=316"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}