B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111ang ch\u1ea1y \u0111ua v\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1edbi \u0111\u00edch? B\u1ea1n n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, t\u00edch l\u0169y ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn, nh\u01b0ng s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m b\u00ean trong v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng kh\u00f3 t\u1ea3? N\u1ebfu c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 c\u00f3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a “ch\u00e0ng trai” \u2013 nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt ch\u00ednh trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a Spencer Johnson \u2013 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi anh t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y “Qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng di\u1ec7u k\u1ef3”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
L\u1eddi h\u1ee9a v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/strong> C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u khi nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt ch\u00ednh c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9. C\u1eadu th\u01b0\u1eddng sang th\u0103m m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng l\u00e3o h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh h\u00e0ng gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u1ecd, \u00f4ng l\u00e3o n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u1eadu v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t: “\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ch\u00e1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n trong m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m”<\/em><\/sup>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u1eadu b\u00e9 h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i. Trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed non n\u1edbt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u1eadu t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u1ed9ng l\u1eaby: m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe \u0111\u1ea1p m\u1edbi, m\u1ed9t kho b\u00e1u \u1ea9n gi\u1ea5u, hay m\u1ed9t ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng khi th\u1eddi gian tr\u00f4i qua, m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1edbi d\u1ea1ng m\u1ed9t g\u00f3i h\u00e0ng b\u1ecdc ruy b\u0103ng \u0111\u1ecf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n S\u1ef1 l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh<\/strong> Khi c\u1eadu b\u00e9 l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai tr\u1ebb, th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u00e0u h\u1ed3ng thu\u1edf nh\u1ecf d\u1ea7n thay th\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c c\u01a1m \u00e1o g\u1ea1o ti\u1ec1n. Anh lao v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nhi\u1ec7t huy\u1ebft, mong mu\u1ed1n kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00ecnh<\/sup>. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, c\u00e0ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, anh c\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c. Anh lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i h\u1ed1i h\u1ea3: \u1edf v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng th\u00ec lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng h\u00f3a \u0111\u01a1n ch\u01b0a thanh to\u00e1n \u1edf nh\u00e0, khi \u1edf b\u00ean b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i l\u1ea1i b\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng d\u1ef1 \u00e1n dang d\u1edf t\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng ty<\/sup>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Anh nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 trong t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m khi\u1ebfn anh r\u01a1i v\u00e0o b\u1ebf t\u1eafc<\/sup>. Ch\u00ednh l\u00fac n\u00e0y, k\u00fd \u1ee9c v\u1ec1 l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng l\u00e3o n\u0103m x\u01b0a hi\u1ec7n v\u1ec1. Anh quay l\u1ea1i t\u00ecm \u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 m\u1ecfi m\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba b\u01b0\u1edbc ra kh\u1ecfi “tr\u1eadn chi\u1ebfn” cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u00ed m\u1eadt n\u1eb1m \u1edf “Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i”<\/strong> Ch\u00e0ng trai h\u1ecfi \u00f4ng l\u00e3o: “Ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i, l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3?”<\/em>. \u00d4ng l\u00e3o m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt gi\u1ea3n \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c kh\u00f3 tin: “Th\u1eadt ra, ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eb1m \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u r\u1ed3i. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ch\u00e1u ch\u01b0a nh\u1eadn ra n\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i”<\/em><\/sup>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean m\u00e0 \u00f4ng l\u00e3o d\u1ea1y cho anh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0: Qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng di\u1ec7u k\u1ef3 kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m \u1edf qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 hay t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, n\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 PH\u00daT GI\u00c2Y HI\u1ec6N T\u1ea0I.<\/strong><\/sup>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0nh qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 qua ho\u1eb7c lo s\u1ee3 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u01b0a t\u1edbi. Ch\u00fang ta qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t r\u1eb1ng “Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i” (The Present) trong ti\u1ebfng Anh c\u00f2n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 “M\u00f3n qu\u00e0”. Khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n trong t\u1eebng ph\u00fat gi\u00e2y m\u00ecnh \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p cho b\u1ea1n<\/strong> \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn khi \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u to l\u1edbn m\u1edbi cho ph\u00e9p m\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn khi c\u00f3 th\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n m\u1edbi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n t\u1eadp trung ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0m, v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, v\u00e0 v\u00e0o h\u01a1i th\u1edf c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh ngay l\u00fac n\u00e0y<\/sup><\/sup><\/sup><\/sup>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n H\u00e3y th\u1eed d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t nh\u1ecbp, h\u00edt m\u1ed9t h\u01a1i th\u1eadt s\u00e2u v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn l\u1ea5y m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111ang ch\u1ea1y \u0111ua v\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1edbi \u0111\u00edch? B\u1ea1n n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, t\u00edch l\u0169y ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn, nh\u01b0ng s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m b\u00ean trong v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng kh\u00f3 t\u1ea3? N\u1ebfu c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 c\u00f3, b\u1ea1n […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":311,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-305","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","category-ky-nang-phat-trien-ca-nhan"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/305","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=305"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/305\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":306,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/305\/revisions\/306"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/311"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=305"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=305"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bizbuilderww.tech\/thaomai\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=305"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}